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How I Lost $5,000 in 20 Minutes and the Lesson I’ve Learned

February 5, 2014 by Enes Karaboga 4 Comments

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Yesterday, I talked to a guy on Skype to make a deal on me helping him increasing his conversions in his website.

Before I jump into call with him, I went to his website and took some notes on money leaks, design problems, his funnels, products he offer etc.

In the beginning of the call, I thanked him for reaching me and taking action for his website and conversions. This was a good move and I felt he was pleased to hear it.

Then, I asked him about his goals with his online business. After getting his reply (which I knew it before he told me), I started to tell him about problems and missing points of his copywriting and other elements preventing him reaching his full potential online. I also told him that even if we did these small fixes his conversion rates would increase easily since problems were too obvious.

At the end of the phone call, I made my $5k offer for two months of consultancy and monitoring results, he said NO.

This is important…

I wondered why he said no. Was the price too high for him or didn’t he trust me? I asked why and his reply was shocking.

He said I was not listening to him and I made him feel stupid.

This was an unexpected response because I asked him about his goals and after he is done, I told him about the problems and how I plan to fix them.

Then he explained, he said I didn’t ask him what he does, and how he does. I also failed to talk about background of his website and business, and the products.

All I did was to concentrate on details of his business missing the main point: communication. He said the money was not an object but the way I communicate with him made him feel uneasy and he didn’t want to work me.

Take Home Message

At the end of the talk, I thanked him for pointing out my mistakes and providing a feedback and the call was over. I felt so embarrassed and depressed. However, after thinking some time, I decided this feedback was a good lesson to me.

Then I decided to talk less and listen to my clients more. I’ll listen to their stories, plans, and objectives before I suggest anything.

Me being an expert or knowing the stuff I do was not helpful to me when it comes to SELLING people. What matters is how strongly I can communicate and how I make my client feel well. 

When you talk to your clients, let them express themselves and take some time to understand them before you speak of your ideas or plans. Compliment them, ask questions, and be understanding.

It doesn’t matter how good is your product or service, you can’t sell it without good communication.

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I’d like to hear your ideas about this.

Talk to you soon,

Enes

   

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About Enes Karaboga

I help website owners and entrepreneurs to increase conversion rates and profits. Let's connect on Linkedin

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  1. dgerryd says

    February 6, 2014 at 1:01 am

    Your honesty should serve you well kodos for owning up to it :). I have the opposite issue where I try to convince local businesses of how I can help them, my main problems are basic marketing techniques which is something I need to master if I want to get anywhere as there is so much to learn and I thought seo was everything I have forgotten the main ingredient which is marketing. Keep em going.

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  2. Heather says

    February 6, 2014 at 4:19 am

    Awesome reminder. Every few months I read Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends and Influence People” to check myself before I wreck myself. Always need a good bitch-slap to the communication abilities!

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  3. turbo says

    March 8, 2014 at 9:47 am

    Good post, remember “people buy people, not products”.

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  4. Chris says

    March 9, 2014 at 1:20 am

    Sometimes it’s best to give people advice in the form of questions. That way it feels like they answer their own question. Use this technique for people with fragile egos like the guy you consulted.

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